Why Does Leadership Feel Lonely?
July 17th, 2009Leadership challenges, decision making, decisions, the enemy 1 CommentHey Gang,
We all know Christianity is a team sport, so why do most pastors, missionaries, and leaders feel lonely? I must tell you that I have felt lonely more times than I can count. There are many reasons for this and we must face them as leaders and be prepared for them.
1. Loneliness comes when the decision rests on your shoulders. We can all get great counsel and we should. But in the end the senior leader must bear the responsibility. The Scriptures are clear that the leaders bear more accountability. This knowledge can create a feeling of loneliness. This is a great reason for TEAM LEADERSHIP!
2. Sometimes you can feel drawn into times of silence and solitude for prayer. This is seen so many times in the Life of our Lord. If it is good enough for Jesus it is good enough for us.
3. Some leaders go deep inside themselves and isolate themselves for serious contemplation and query.
4. There are times the enemy will attack us and make us feel lonely. The M.O. of the “Lion” (The Devil) is to isolate the prey and attack. The enemy will cause us to “feel” like we are all alone so he can move in for the kill. Some leaders will pull away from trusted advisors and friends when they do not need to. Without being alert, the enemy will pull us away and destroy us.
One thing the leader must be prepared for is our constant companion and that is PAIN. On Monday I will deal with this topic. Let me leave you with a few questions: Do you feel alone? Is it necessary? Do you have trusted advisers that will walk with you no matter what? This is an area I am very blessed in today, but it has not always been that way. It is sad how many ministers feel like they do ministry all alone.
Yours to count on!
Pastor